Maybe it all started as a few friendly dates, but now you find yourself falling hard and fast for the guy. As there is no wrong or right time to fall for a guy, you can’t help but want to find out how to make him reciprocate your feelings. Find out what you can do to get his attention and make him love you.

Let him see the real you. The best way to make him love you is to be confident of who you are. Let him see your extraordinary mind and bubbly character. Stop doing things that are not “you” and enjoy doing things that come so easily to you. This way he is bound to see you at your best. Besides it is extremely tiring to pretend to be someone you are not!

Believe in your abilities. This is a sure way of becoming self-assured. Many women are single because of low self-esteem. How you portray and think of yourself is the answer to success. A girl who is not really pretty but acts like she is wearing a crown is doubly attractive. He will love you once he admires you.

Don’t overreact! Being too loud, laughing for no reason at all, saying anything that comes to mind, or even being too invisible are all ways of looking like a fool. These overreactions are dead giveaways of a woman who is desperate. Relax!

Look wonderful. Make the best of your looks. The first impression always counts. No doubt that character and personality are high on the list of priorities but looking attractive is obviously going to make it easier for you. Get expert help and knock him backwards with your sensuality and looks!

Make him curious. This is one of the oldest tricks in the book but it works. Make him curious, and better still, make him a little jealous. Look gorgeous and get friendly with his friends. Play hard to get and don’t be too available. He is going to long to have you on his arm pretty soon!

Get him into your territory. Invite the guy over to your house, where you feel comfortable and can set the ambience. This will give you a chance to set the pace and trigger his emotions towards you. You could also invite some close friends who will help you by making you look even more exciting.

Find out stuff about him. If you find out that he likes a particular sport or drink, or going to the movies, etc., you can use this knowledge to your advantage and make him appreciate the fact that you too share his interests. Challenge him to a game of tennis or chess, talk about his favorite band, and so on, and he will love to be around you.

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In this day and age in which everyone seems to be airbrushed, getting plastic surgery, and all-around fake it seems as though it’s impossible for the average man or woman to look good for their mate. It truly is not once you understand how simple it can be.

General Tips

To look good you have to feel good. This means eating all natural foods. If it’s wrapped, bagged, canned, etc., then it contains nasty preservatives. Eat these items sparingly (less than 1x per week if possible). Eat more: fruits, vegetables, and lean meats.

Don’t drink soda! This is the number one reason most people gain excess weight. Replace it with carbonated flavored water, lemonade, or tea.

Workout everyday! It can be easy and fun. In fact, you can get your spouse involved as well! Go for a walk every morning or afternoon. You should get about 30 minutes of exercise at least 3x per week.

Maintain your body everyday. Brush your teeth, get them whitened professionally 1x per year (white teeth can completely upgrade anyone’s appearance), shower daily, wash your face with an exfoliating cream (or an acne reduction cream if you have pimples), remove excess body hair, use mouthwash, etc. I hate having to mention this but some people truly do forget to do the bare minimum. This takes a huge toll on a relationship. If you don’t care about yourself, why should anyone else?

Eat a multivitamin daily.

Women

NOTE: Don’t fall into a rut. Just because you are married does not give you an excuse to stop trying to look good. You try to look good for the rest of the world, shouldn’t you look at least 100x better for your own husband? Ladies, trust me, this is crucial.

Wear heels. They elongate your legs and make them look even better.

Wear your husband’s (not your) favorite perfume, hairstyles and clothes ESPECIALLY when you are at home. He is the person you should do your best to make happy and, frankly, the only person whose opinion should truly matter to you other than your own. Also, don’t lounge around your home in unattractive clothes you wouldn’t want your friends to see you in. Your husband should be the priority in your life. Make him feel that way and put in the effort.

Don’t wear too much makeup. It’ll age you faster. Lipgloss and some eyeshadow is about all you need.

Go to the salon every once in a while and get a new haircut or style. It’s amazing what this can do for your confidence.

Men

*NOTE: Don’t fall into a rut. Just because you are married does not give you an excuse to stop trying to look good. You try to look good for the rest of the world, shouldn’t you look at least 100x better for your own wife? Trust me, this is crucial.

Take up bodybuilding. There’s a program called P90X that can get you ripped in 90 days. The extra effort on looking good will pay off and your wife won’t be able to resist you.

Wear your wife’s (not your) favorite cologne, hairstyles and clothes ESPECIALLY when you are at home. She is the person you should do your best to make happy and, frankly, the only person whose opinion should truly matter to you other than your own. Also, don’t lounge around your home in unattractive clothes you wouldn’t want your friends to see you in. Your wife should be the priority in your life. Make her feel that way and put in the effort.

Pursue your interests. Invite your wife to join in! Women do find it incredibly attractive when a man is driven towards something. Playing with/laughing with your wife is critical in making her see you as the most attractive man in the universe.

Watch romances and chick flicks. All of the men in those movies are the same in attitude. It’s extremely difficult for a woman to resist when a man romances her. Follow those men and do what they do. Trust me, it’s cheesy but works.

Uniforms, uniforms, uniforms. Alright, maybe this is just me, but a man in normal clothes vs. that same man in a uniform can make a huge difference. Ask your wife what kind of clothes she would like to see you in. Make some of her fantasies come true. Don’t worry, she’ll reciprocate.

Hope that helps you all. I’ll be covering how to look and feel attractive WAY more in my upcoming ebook “Perfect Love Here I Come.” I may also have a hardcover. I’ll keep you guys posted on any updates when it’s going to be released.

Gina E. is the Relationship Expert Mastermind behind the book “Perfect Love Here I Come.” You can read more FREE relationship tips and relationship advice on her blog: http://perfectlovehere.blogspot.com. Be sure to sign-up for her newsletter for even more free tips!

My dating coach client Ellie met Mark, a really great, attractive guy (via Match) and had a wonderful dinner date. In fact, she never met a Match.com guy like this. Usually there isn’t much spark, but she does give many guys the three date try as I often suggest. But this date was really special for Ellie including sparks, laughter, and smart conversation.

Mark emailed to say that it was one of the best 1st dates he’d ever had. He asked Ellie to go out again next weekend, so things were looking good. But still, she just worried that her enthusiasm could appear as desperation and she didn’t want to scare him off. Ellie said, “I’m not desperate, just excited to meet someone like him.”

First I congratulated Ellie on a great first date! Next, I advised her to take some deep breaths. Of course she should be excited, but not too much in front of Mark. That excitement would be better shared with her girlfriends.

While I didn’t want to rain on her parade, it’s so important to keep things in perspective. Yes, Ellie had a great date, but it’s only one so far, even if it does look promising. Only time will tell. She has a lot more “data gathering” to do. That’s the whole point of dating — to observe a man’s behavior and how he approaches winning you over.

This is the exact reason why I frequently recommend dating more than one guy at a time — so you don’t over focus on any one guy during the beginning phase of dating. That can scare a man away quicker than you can imagine and you could drive yourself crazy too.

The best thing I could tell Ellie believe it or not is to distract herself. If she finds herself thinking about him too much, she should read a book, talk to friends, exercise, watch a movie, start a new project, even go on a date with someone else.

If dating Mark works out, there’s no downside to guarding her heart, and if it doesn’t — well then it was a wise move to not over think things and put all her eggs in the “Mark Basket”.

I recommended that Ellie be her happy enjoyable self on their next date, but to avoid gushing or over sharing her hopeful feelings. She can say she’s having a great time. She can compliment and praise him, but not to over do it. As everyone knows, when you pour on the compliments and excitement too thick, it can backfire and repel a man (or woman). And worse, it can come across as insincere!

Nothing is more fun or tougher than the beginning of a new relationship. The prospect of finding a good partner can build and make you feel like you could just burst with excitement. Ellie needs to keep her enthusiasm in check because Mark still has a lot of proving to do before she knows for sure that he is “the one”. The best thing she can do is take things slowly, distract herself and date other men to make sure she doesn’t push him away by being overly enthusiastic.

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Next time you run out for milk in your PJ’s, remember this:

Got Chores? In a recent study, it stated over 50% of all couples met each other during an errand. They were not dressed to impress, nor did they plan on finding “the one” that day, it just happened.

Line Up. Surprisingly, a majority of men say standing in line is a great place to meet someone. It’s an instant ice breaker, and quite frankly it makes sense. People feel more comfortable sharing a little misery, and are perhaps more willing to start a conversation with a stranger, in order to pass the time.

Need a Ride? A crowded subway car, bus or train lends itself out to be quite a vehicle for love. Many successful couples reported meeting on some form of transportation, Amtrak is a fave, plus there is even a place to have drinks! The close quarters make for a great excuse for men and woman to talk, flirt and tease each other, without feeling the anxiety of approaching without a reason.

Suit Up. More active people find that singles and co-ed team sports make for a winning combination. When men and woman are working together in a competitive way, the sexual tension builds naturally, and before you know it they are players in their own game of love.

Where to Meet Men if You Are:

Age 25 – 30:

• Through friends
• Gym (no ripped sweats/stained T-shirts!)
• Running club
• Beach
• Ski resorts
• Parties (so get out there girl!)
• Walking your dog (if you don’t have one, borrow a friend’s)
• Graduate school (plus, you’ll be smarter)
• Sporting events (men go in groups, you should too)
• Speed dating

Age 30 – 40:

• Eating out with friends (look around)
• Singles adventure trips/vacations
• Classes (cooking/wine tasting/computer)
• Co-ed softball/volleyball league
• Whole Foods/Trader Joe’s (high-end supermarkets)
• Church groups/synagogues
• Through co-workers and friends
• Saturdays/Sundays at Home Depot
• Matchmaking services
• Running club

Age over 40:

• Home Depot or Lowe’s on weekends
• Tech conferences (get wired ladies!)
• Airplanes/trains (the Acela rocks!)
• Matchmaking services
• Singles dinner clubs/wine tastings
• The park, if you have children
• Walking the dog
• Church groups/synagogues
• Single parent groups
• Whole Foods, Trader Joe’s (high end supermarket)

Matt Titus, http://www.textinthecity.com

Have you ever wondered how some women have the power to make a guy fall in love so fast? Do you wish your man would be head over heels for you? Keep reading to learn three amazing steps to making him fall in love with you and to stay that way. You can make your guy go from not being interested to being madly in love with you.

You need to understand, firstly, that men are complicated. They do not get all emotional like women do as fast, and are for the most part afraid to commit to just one woman. Some men honestly can’t even figure out what they want in a relationship. Women are more emotional therefore they tend to know what they want sooner and can fall in love rather quickly. If you have an idea of what your guy is feeling and thinking, this may be a clue as to what is going on with your relationship.

Men are just simply confused when it comes to love and serious relationships. Women are known for trying to push the issue of commitment sooner than a man would like. Men are afraid to commit so therefore it is hard to know what they want. Trying to force your guy to commit too soon can only lead to one thing. He will separate himself and can lead to breaking up, which is the last thing you want.

Slow the pace down and just take it easy. Let the emotional bond between the two of you happen naturally. Your man may take a while to process his feelings and emotions. He may do things a little different than you and most men so don’t rush things. Enjoy the time you have with him now, and things will go their own pace and he will see that you are not rushing, which can lead to him not being so afraid to commit.

Try not to get too physical with him just yet. It’s always best to wait and see where the relationship heads. Anything good is worth waiting for, and if he has a genuine interest in you, he won’t mind this step at all. This will give you both a chance to get to know each other.

If you have already had sex with him, try to back off a bit. It will be a hard obstacle to overcome, but it can be done. All of these tips are sure to make your guy want you more and you will have him in love with you in a heartbeat.

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You’re getting ready for a night out. You’re getting all dolled up — blow drying your hair, straightening it with a flat iron, putting on mascara — making sure you look your best.

As you get ready, you spend time highlighting your physical features.

So, what are you going to wear tonight? Leggings, a sexy top, and the perfect bag. You’re thinking, “Dress to impress and look sexy.” For him, of course. But, you don’t really know what appeals to him.

Here’s what Charlie Murphy, a guy from Brooklyn, New York thinks:

When a woman is out and about, or at a bar or anywhere, presentation is everything. A woman can have sex appeal without being half or just about naked. While some women have been blessed with incredible features, it’s the total package that makes it or breaks it for me. Sex appeal makes you want, and wanting creates excitement.

Sex appeal isn’t just about looking good on the outside. You gotta have the whole package together — not just the physical piece, but the mental component too.

While you spend time getting ready, and highlighting your best physical assets with clothing and make up, don’t forget about getting your inner self ready too. You’re never fully dressed without (confidence, belief in yourself, interest in others, kindness) your inner beauty shining through.

You look sexy with your hair done and fancy wardrobe. But, you ought to present yourself nicely — then you’ll have the total package.

Anna Goldstein writes for Self In The City, an online magazine that gives expert tips on working out, eating, relationships, money, beauty and well-being. Visit and subscribe to the newsletter today.

Do you feel like fate has singled you out to be alone the rest of your life? Would you like to meet a guy and fall madly in love? If you don’t want to be single forever, do you know how to get a guy to fall in love with you?

When I was young it seemed simple to have lots of boys around. I thought they were all in love with me because it seemed they never wanted to go home. Now that I am older, I think I have a different picture of the situation. My Dad was a cowboy, he told great stories, and we had horses. Those boys might have been smiling and friendly, but I don’t think their visits were about me. They were in love with Dad.

Getting a guy to fall in love with you is more complicated than owning a horse. What will help you is understanding how to develop your personal attraction and magnetism. When you do, it will be easy. But if you are stuck thinking love will never happen for you, you need the following:

Self assurance — Confidence is magnetizing. This is how you get who you want. Confidence starts with knowing you can take care of yourself wherever you are. Whether you need social skills, a career path, new friends, financial planning, or counseling to handle your emotional issues, help is out there for you if you ask for it.

Trust — Becoming a trustworthy person starts with trusting yourself to do the right thing, no matter how difficult the situation. Do you say what you mean and mean what you say? Are your thoughts and words in alignment with your actions? The man you want will fall in love and stay in love if he can trust you.

Femininity — Feminine women have great power. Men flock to them. True femininity has substance. An attractive woman cares about her spiritual center, her competency at what she does, and the quality of her friendships. She also cares about her appearance, takes care of her health, and stays fit from exercise.

Words of endearment — Men like women who pay attention to them and pay them compliments. Sincere compliments will attract men to you like bears to honey. If you feel secure with a man, and have been dating him for a while, he will also like to hear terms of endearment like being called sweetie, sugar, darling, and baby.

Larger purpose — Extremely attractive women know they are fulfilling a greater purpose and are serene about it. They have an inner-based spiritual center that is the foundation under everything they do. They have the kind of energy that calms people and everyone wants to be around them. Wherever they are, they make a contribution, just by their presence.

Fun — If you have the qualities mentioned above, and you know how to laugh, play, and enjoy yourself wherever you go, you are irresistible.

Action — If you want to fall in love and stay in love, you need to take the steps to make that happen. If you don’t know how to get on track to do that, get yourself a coach.

When you do the above, you will know how to get a guy to fall in love with you. And you won’t even need a horse.

Tonja Weimer is a master single’s coach, life coach and syndicated columnist. Visit her websites TonjaWeimer.com and SinglesDatingTips.com for more tips, skills, and insight on dating, relationships, singles, and love.