Things Men Should Never Say to Women

BY JANET GRACE ORTIGAS

Most women freak out for no discernible reason and you wonder why. Well, you must have said something that enraged her and the only way you can solve this problem is by changing your choice of words. You should know that there are phrases that may seem incredibly harmless to you but will result in explosion and unjustified anger that will lead to arguments.

If you have been romantically involved with a woman for a long time you will probably know what makes her tick. Communication is one of the key ingredients of a good relationship. There are many things you want to share with her but sometimes you say the wrong things and fail to realize that several seemingly innocent remarks can really tick her off especially if they are true. There are plenty of things you should not say to woman when talking to her:

1. Never say her sister or friend is hot. Your intentions might be innocent but women will feel insecure or threatened.

2. Never say anything about her weight. If you noticed that she gained weight, don’t ask her if she did not have enough exercise, tell her to watch what she eats or comment on how she looks in her dress. Not only will you hurt her feelings, this will also affect her self-esteem and make her feel insecure.

3. Never compare her to your ex. No one wants to be compared to others. Never say your ex was better than her at anything or she will think that you are not over your ex. No matter what the situation is, never mention your ex. If your girlfriend compared you to her ex, how would you feel?

4. Never make a negative comment about her hair. Women are stylish and they try new hairstyles once in a while. They want men to positively notice their efforts; saying “what did you do to your hair?” is not the kind of reaction they want to hear.

5. Never say you don’t like commitment or don’t want to get married. Most women who are in a relationship, expect it to be long term, so if you say you don’t want to commit or get married, you will only make her think that there is no future in your relationship. This will really upset her and likely cause a huge disagreement.

6. Never share your sexual adventures. You don’t want her to think that you’re a player. Not only will it make her jealous, you will also decrease her level of trust.

7. Never say she reminds you of your mother. Women might consider it as either a compliment or an insult. If you love your mom, then it’s a good thing. If not, then you’ll have to deal with the consequences.

8. Never say “It’s up to you.” If she asks your opinion in making decisions, don’t leave it up to her. It may be insignificant to you but it is important to her. You don’t want to make her feel that you don’t care or she’ll end up feeling abandoned. Tell her what you think and offer a suggestion to help her make a decision, no matter how silly you think it is.

Relationships can be tricky because every woman is different. However, if you’re in a relationship with a woman, you should know better than anyone what not to say to her. Not all women get rattled when you say these things but most of them definitely will. Remember: Women are sensitive creatures.

Learn more about Mastering the Law of Attraction by visiting http://www.thesecretoflifebydesign.com. Janet Grace Ortigas is a freelance writer and online blogger.