What is a Wussy, Needy Man?

BY MAURICE TATE

What is one thing that women hate about men?

Is it lack of money? Or is it a lack of good looks and a great body?

I have asked many women this question and the answers have surprised me. What I thought would be very important, like a lack of money, did not seem to play a big role with most women.

After speaking to many women, it all seems to come down to the fact that they really hate needy men. It seems women seem to be able to spot a needy, wussy man a mile off. Most women seem very sensitive to feeling into a man. Most attractive women get approached all the time and they seem to need to be able to spot immediately if a man is worth the effort to get to know. If you are a man, imagine being an attractive woman and being approached 10 times a day by needy men. You would soon get really sick of men telling you that you are beautiful and being asked, can I take you out?

It seems most men radiate a neediness that most women can feel.

Perhaps, part of this neediness is his body language. What is one thing that women notice about a man’s body language immediately? It seems eye contact is the first thing a women uses to test a man. If he holds her gaze till she looks away he has passed the first test. If he can’t even hold her gaze for a few seconds he is weak and not worth the bother. Men that can hold a women’s gaze for about 5 seconds and then smile are judged to be strong and this sparks attraction.

What are some things that wussy men do?

I feel that needy men always try to please the women by always agreeing with her and not saying no to anything. In my experience, the more you say no to a women the more she respects you and this stimulates attraction. The more you say yes, the less she feels you are able to hold onto yourself. If you say yes all the time she knows you can be manipulated to do just about anything. Women want a strong man they can’t manipulate. They do not want be be a mother!

Many needy men buy expensive presents to please a women. Buying flowers for all dates would be an example. Also, letting the women get away with bad behavior is another example of needy men’s behavior. For more examples of wussy behaviour, I have a list on my website.

I feel women test men all the time to see how they react. Will he hold onto himself or fold like most needy men? I feel this behavior is unconscious for most women. Men need to learn how to spot a woman’s test and not fold.

Why are most men needy for love and sex? I feel this is the result of not feeling that they were loved enough from their mum in their early years. They then seek a women to be a mum substitute on some level. Most women can spot a mummies boy a mile away.

The men that really get this are women magnets. Approach such men and see if they are needy around women.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. Visit his websites Free Dating Tips and Free Kissing Tips.